Researchers have discovered that using text abbreviations can negatively affect interpersonal relationships. In a survey of 150 American texters, a significant majority reported utilizing abbreviations, with many believing it had no detrimental effect on their communication. However, findings indicate that using shortcuts like “thx” or even just consonants makes the recipient feel undervalued or brushed off, discouraging engagement.

In experiments with 1,170 participants, the preference for fully spelled-out messages was evident, with abbreviated texts consistently perceived as less sincere. This pattern held true even among close friends, highlighting that brevity in messaging can inadvertently express a lack of effort. It was further tested on the platform Discord, which revealed that messages filled with abbreviations elicited fewer responses. Ultimately, while occasional abbreviations may not doom a relationship, an overreliance on them can undermine genuine connection. So, put the “thanks” back in your texts—because sometimes, words matter more than we realize.