There was a time when opening Facebook meant seeing what your friends were actually up to. Chronological feeds, dumb status updates, BuzzFeed quizzes that told you which pizza topping matched your personality. It was messy and fun and genuinely social. According to a new piece from Elizabeth Nolan Brown at Reason, that version of social media is effectively gone. What replaced it? Algorithmic feeds full of strangers, influencers treating every post like a brand launch, and short-form video that makes every app feel like a TV channel you never signed up for.

 

The shift didn’t happen overnight. Platforms chased engagement, and engagement meant showing you content from people you don’t know. TikTok proved the model worked, so Instagram and Facebook copied it. Suddenly your feed wasn’t about connection. It was about consumption. Commentators like Ben Smith compare social platforms to bars that lose their crowd, and Katherine Dee says the feeling of being online together is over. When your friends stop showing up, there’s not much reason to keep going back.

So what now? Maybe this is less about loss and more about honesty. People aren’t mourning social media. They’re relieved to have a reason to leave. The question is whether anything replaces it, or whether we’re all just quietly logging off for good. What was the moment social media stopped being fun for you? Drop it in the comments, we actually read them.